Saturday 18 July 2015

She's here...

I have a daughter.

I am a mummy.

No words can describe the significance of these two sentences.

All I can say is...it was worth it. It was worth everything. And, I love her.

For those still on your journey I think of you all the time. I'm so sorry you are still waiting...and trying...and crying. I've been there and I will never forget it.

This will be my last blog post. I hope my words can offer something to someone out there in the big wide world who is looking for information that will help them on their infertility journey. I know I often sought comfort from the words of others online when those around me couldn't understand, or help.

Best of luck whoever you are. I hope you get everything you've dreamed of...because dreams can come true. I'm staring at mine right now.

5 comments:

  1. I read your blogs while I was trying to conceive for two years, after my lap I fell pregnant naturally and I kept checking your blogs to see how you were getting on. Casper turned 1 in March and I am so so happy to read that your dream has come true too. You don't know who I am and I don't know who you are but we shared something significant. I went through a pretty bad bout of pnd last year, something that probably had to do with a combination of infertility, early pregnancy bleeding, illness, and an extremely drawn out birth. After having longer for a baby for so long my expectations were sky high and I wasn't prepared for the upheaval and sleep deprivation that comes with a new born, I am sure you know what I mean. I live in the UK and received fantastic care from the National Health Service, my partner, my family and friends. Throughout I felt guilty that I was crumbling under the experience I had wished for for so long. I am well now, very happy, enjoying being a mum and along with sometimes wishing it was nap/bed time :) extremely grateful for what I have received. If anything, we will never take them for granted xx

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  2. Congratulations my friend!!

    -Mindy

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  4. I don’t know if you get notified of comments any more but I’m letting all my tears out after reading the wonderful ending to your story.

    I’m here because I was looking for peoples experiences of Lap and Hysteroscopy. I’m five weeks away from mine and I’m so grateful to have been able to read your entire story.

    The sense that you aren’t alone in feeling negative and tumbles by this rollercoaster.

    Thank you for your story <3

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